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My SO said guys and girls are different which is what allows him to be friends with his girlfriends

but that I can't be friends with my guy friends since guys only think about sex. I was going to dump my guy friend for him now I'm reconsidering it since he REFUSES to dump his girlfriend even though i told him straight out it hurts me. I go "we have a problem" and he said "yea it's you." I feel like i'm the one willing to sacrifice and he's not. every time we talk about it we argue and it makes me cry and want to drink. I hate bringing it up so I just stopped. Why is he so stuck on this girl. what do i do?

 
lizzybee44

Asked by lizzybee44 at 7:47 PM on Jun. 12, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (16)
  • What's good for the goose is also good for the gander. Don't let him pull that bull on you! If he won't stop, then he can't tell you to. Plain & simple!
    etexmom

    Answer by etexmom at 10:52 AM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • If men can't be friends with women and not want sex then that means he wants sex from his chick friend so his theory doesn't hold up. Tell him that
    JLS2388

    Answer by JLS2388 at 7:52 PM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • That's pure and total bull poo poo. He's up to something girl. Hugs to you.
    texasgurl33

    Answer by texasgurl33 at 7:50 PM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • Tell him you are not going for that double standard, it is a 50/50 deal, if he can do this so can you period.
    older

    Answer by older at 7:50 PM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • BREAK UP WITH HIM! he is not worth it and if he wont break up with her for you then he loves her more than you find someone better
    destiny269

    Answer by destiny269 at 7:50 PM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • by girlfriend i mean friend that's a girl
    lizzybee44

    Comment by lizzybee44 (original poster) at 7:48 PM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • he says im controlling him now
    lizzybee44

    Comment by lizzybee44 (original poster) at 7:50 PM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • leave ! you deserve much better xoxo
    alliep2011

    Answer by alliep2011 at 7:54 PM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • i know i can do it but i don't want to because it doesn't make him happy
    lizzybee44

    Comment by lizzybee44 (original poster) at 7:56 PM on Jun. 12, 2011

  • jls2388 is right he must just think on a one way track
    lizzybee44

    Comment by lizzybee44 (original poster) at 8:03 PM on Jun. 12, 2011

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