I finally had it out with my DH. I have been holding back and taking the backlash from him this whole time and then last night I did a reverse. I got so fed up with being blamed and told I'm lazy and not willing to do anything to help us. I take care of my DD, I have done everything he has reasonably asked me to do regarding getting our delivery business going. He sits around and plays games and then sleeps until 1-2pm everyday. He has been telling me I am not acting like I want to do the business and that I lay around and watch tv shows all the time. First off, I only watch tv shows at night when she is in bed asleep and then I don't stay up late, I go to bed b/c I know I have to get up in the morning and take care of her. Of course he made a face at that, b/c he knew I was right. He has slacked too long. I mean how lazy is it when I put in for part time jobs for HIM? He was too damn lazy to do it himself. Then he woke our DD up and argued with me for an hour in her bedroom. Then he asked if I wanted out of our marriage. I never said anything. I wish I had said yes. Then I kept getting badgered about how horrible I am as a person. Then I told him how other people view him, that he is an asshole. Many, many people have told me this, and I even gave him specifics. All he could do is lay there and say, "yeah I know people think I'm an ass at first, but I don't care what they think, and they are just losers". Who the hell did I marry? Why couldn't I have said yes, I want out? Maybe part of me fears if I leave, what he will do to me, regarding our DD.
Answer by Ati_13 at 10:20 AM on Jun. 13, 2011
Answer by emmyandlisa at 10:21 AM on Jun. 13, 2011
Answer by Ati_13 at 10:11 AM on Jun. 13, 2011
Answer by Evie3 at 10:15 AM on Jun. 13, 2011
End it do it for your DD that environment is not good for her, she is better off with her parents apart then together & constantly fighting, not healthy at all, don't fear anything he can not take your DD from you unless your a drug addict, abuse your DD or your DD is in any type of danger with you & he has to have proof, so don't worry about his stupid threats, take your little girl & get out ASAP or kick him out.
Answer by VanillaBlondie8 at 10:34 AM on Jun. 13, 2011
Answer by Ms.Gwen at 11:11 AM on Jun. 13, 2011
Answer by mom-2-4boys at 12:07 PM on Jun. 13, 2011