I am a young mom ( 19 ) ... But I am a great mom, I take wonderful care of my daughter, and I even have a good career ( I am planning on buying a house within the next year ) ... This should be the things that my fiance's family look at ( they could also look at how I am nice, friendly, willing to do anything for anyone and treat their son very well ) ... but that isn't how it is...
They have said he is too young, and that a child would just ruin his life - therefore my daughter couldnt possibly be his... and even using the fact that she was a preemie against me saying she really was on time, but I changed the dates so he would think this is his baby.
well first of all, he is 23 years old ! he is a grown man, he has a good job and he loves being a daddy .... To say i am only trying to " stick him with this baby" is for money, is silly , as i make more money than he does.
second of all, my daughter was a preemie... she was born the day I turned 33 weeks and she was 4 pounds 9 oz.... At the hospital she was refered to as a preemie, she even had to have extra tests done because she WAS a preemie ... Also we were together for a long time before I even got pregnant... and I have never cheated on him, so it still wouldnt matter if I had her months before that...
it just makes me so angry, his family could be apart of this wonderful time, instead they try to get my fiance to live a life that he doesnt even want to live ( he has 3 brothers who all party and have children that they dont take care of... my fiance talks about how he has never wanted that kind of life - he wants to be a very active dad and have a family life, he even wants to go back to school so he can be a elementary school teacher )...
It is parents like his that make it so easy for there to be so many deadbeat fathers out there and I just cant believe that they dont want to know their beautiful grandaughter !
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