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Exes on Father's Day

If you and your kid's dad aren't together anymore, do you still buy them a gift for Father's Day?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:18 PM on Jun. 13, 2011 in General Parenting

Answers (13)
  • I guess it depends on if you remain close.
    good luck
    Sillylins

    Answer by Sillylins at 2:20 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • I used to buy him a card but he didn't even care about it. after two years of buying him a card and small gift from my son i just said fuck it. He's not worth it. He never bought me anything for mother's dy, my birthday, christmas, anything when we were together and when we broke up so Iasked myself, why am I putting in effort for this loser. Haven't heard from him in 2 years now.
    Bugzmomma

    Answer by Bugzmomma at 2:21 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • I would personally. My mom still does
    SamJ321

    Answer by SamJ321 at 2:22 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • I used to when my son was younger, but now my son just makes him somethign from school...and thats enough. He never gives me anything for mothers day...sooo...yeah...lol.
    kimberlyinberea

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 2:23 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • Only if my kids ask to buy their Dad something.
    My3Ez

    Answer by My3Ez at 2:33 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • Depends on if the kids wanted to buy him something
    Mamma9386

    Answer by Mamma9386 at 2:38 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • I won't be buying one this year (1st year we're not together). We're not even on speaking terms, and DS doesn't even see him.
    myree85

    Answer by myree85 at 2:45 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • No
    Candi1024

    Answer by Candi1024 at 2:45 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • Depends on closeness of child/father, if there was abuse... But I wouldn't use Father's Day to get back at my kids' dad if we weren't together.
    whomi

    Answer by whomi at 2:51 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

  • No, he is a mean and vindictive man and I do not buy him a present from the kids/
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 3:32 PM on Jun. 13, 2011

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