My husband and I have been happily married for 7 years ... for the first few months we were dating i will admit I was very insecure because the guy I dated before him cheated on me with 6 different women ( that I didnt find out about until the end of our 2 year relationship) ... but we worked on it and it got to a point to where I was very secure with out relationship.
In fact for the last several years my husband has worked with all women, some of them he is close with ... I trust him and I have no problem with it, I honestly feel that I can believe he wont cheat on me... and he knows I wouldnt to that to him or even risk messing with our family ( like I wouldnt want my kids to one day hear that i slept with someone else ) ...
So like I said he has alot of female friends, they eat lunch together everyday , they sometimes call and text, and still I am fine with that...
Well, the other day he was suppose to pick me up at work ( his car was getting fixed up and so he drove my car since he gets off work before i do) ... well he didnt show up, didnt answer his phone, nothing ( he got home extra early and fell asleep on the couch) ... one of my friends from work who is a guy gave me a ride home... Didnt think anything of it, because like i said he is a friend ( except he is just a work friend, not even close to what my husbands female friends are) ... I walked in woke my husband up , he said sorry and stuff and then asked how I got home, when i told him he got REALLY MAD ...
he said having female friends are different than a guy friend ... Since I was already annoyed I went off and told him it was his fault he had to bring me home and that nothing happend and nothing would happen and that I couldnt believe he was acting like that, and he said well it is different because he is a single guy and he probably was only being nice because he wanted me, I told him he was acting dumb and if we were going to talk about what could happen with our "friends" well then I should be upset because his one friend is known as the office slut... but yet i dont make a big deal about them going to lunch together, and yet this guy was nice enough to drive me home because my husband was busy sleeping on the couch...
Asked by Anonymous at 2:27 PM on Jun. 13, 2011 in Relationships
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