Ok when we found out we were pregnant with DD (she is 8 months now) we decided that we wouldn't be placing her pictures online and wouldn't allow anyone else to do so either (it's a long story but end with a friend of mine placing her kids pictures on facebook and a stranger stalking them) so we told the family and though many were upset they stood by our decision since we are her parents......all but DH's mother who has done nothing but throw a fit even going so far as posting this on her blog "I would LOVE to share a photo of her but her mom (ok her mom's mom O.o) doesn't want her photo online, BUT her dad (my son) says go ahead, he wants to share her... but I decided it's better (for now) if I don't share, but trust me she is GORGEOUS!" for the record DH never said it and reamed her for lying so now here is my problem......
MIL and FIL are causing problems threatening to take our DD and unborn child because i won't let them have the kind of visitation they want (if they come to the house i am supposed to leave and not return till they leave......if they want DH and DD to visit i am not invited and should be stranded at home while DH's takes our only car while i am border line high risk pregnancy) needless to say our lawyer said they had no case because we are fit parents and their demands are unreasonable.......Sorry off topic main question is we have stopped photos from going to MIL and FIL but they just contacted DH and said if we don't send pics they would get them from their parents (who we have no problems with unless they start sharing pic with MIL and FIL) so do i stop sending pics or do i give them a warning saying if they can't abide by our wishes then we can't send anymore pictures
sorry i know this is long but i really need advice and maybe some support but feel free to bash i have a thick skin
Answer by sarasmommy777 at 4:09 PM on Jun. 13, 2011
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Answer by gdiamante at 4:22 PM on Jun. 13, 2011
first of all they are taking grandparents rights too far and no I wouldn't let my DH take my child where I'm not welcome and there is absolutely NO REASON for them to expect you to leave your home because they want to come over that's just completely unreasonable. they are your kid's and your rules if they can't abide by them then they can't visit. as for your question I'd stop giving pictures out completely until everyone agrees to abide with your wishes!!!!! I put my kid's picture's online but my settings are to my friends only you can't be too careful about that... it's a very serious issue.
Answer by traren at 4:22 PM on Jun. 13, 2011
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