i"ve been with my man for a month. he's never asked me for money ever. his aunt and lil cousins were murdered about 2 weeks ago and he's been really depressed and his family have been trying to find money for the funeral because his aunt didnt have insurance so he told me what was going on and that he was broke. i understood that. well his birthday is coming up and he said babe are u gonna get me a present, i said yeah maybe what do u like. and he told me money is always a good gift lol and i said yeah i bet. then he texted me back saying yeah what does that mean, are u mad. he's never asked me for money but should i let him go? i wasn't feeling the fact that he even had the audacity to say money would be a good gift. i haven't spoken to him since because i'm kind of iffy towards him nowAnswer Question
Answer by princessbeth79 at 11:54 PM on Jun. 13, 2011
well I think it was really forward of him to ask you if you where gonna get him a present!! because you've only been seeing him for a month!!! no not cool... I'd feel weird about it too!!!!
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Answer by geminisummerz at 12:09 AM on Jun. 14, 2011
I am sorry about your Man's Aunt & Cousin; i am sure he has had a hard time dealing w/ the loss of both of them but.. i think it is very disrespectful to even ask if you are planning to get him a present- much less; say Money is always good! That would be a Deal Breaker for me- especially, if you have only been dating a month- if something is telling you it doesn't feel right; it probably isn't.. go w/ your gut instinct- lots of luck!
Answer by daisyb at 12:14 AM on Jun. 14, 2011
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