I have an almost one year old with a man I thought I loved. I can't take the way my life is headed so I have to start a new one. He keeps the bank card and never gives me money but he will go and buy what we need and keep the rest mostly for beer, he stays out til the am when he says he'll be right back with no call or anything to say where he might be, he emotionally abuses me to the point where I throw up, He doesn't fix anything we have a broken dryer, door, and table...Well I broke off our relationship but now I am stuck here with no dryer and tons of laundry, I don't have a job so I have no money, I can't pay the bills and have nowhere to go when they decide to kick me out, there's barely any food in the house, and I have a baby to take care of... How do I fix my life? I know I need to get a job to start, but there is nobody to watch the baby and I have no money to hire a babysitter, and I have no license /car to get around. I am at a loss, I don't know if I can deal with this, I am sooo upset and I feel like a complete failure as a person and mother! Any advice for this lowlife of a mom?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:34 AM on Jun. 14, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by zperez0809 at 8:37 AM on Jun. 14, 2011
Answer by samurai_chica at 8:40 AM on Jun. 14, 2011
Answer by caramelH at 9:19 AM on Jun. 14, 2011
Well try to put your ex on child support asap that will be some money coming in so you can always feed your baby, also you have to get a job, why don't you try to get a housekeeping job where they let you stay at their home with your child, start there save up money till you have enough to buy a car, then keep saving till you have enough so you can get an apartment & even a better job. GL sweetie!
P.S. Your not a failure, life just can be very hard sometimes but as long as you don't give up & keep fighting through it your never a failure.
Answer by VanillaBlondie8 at 9:45 AM on Jun. 14, 2011
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Answer by lovingmy4babies at 10:02 AM on Jun. 14, 2011
Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 3:56 PM on Jun. 14, 2011
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