In highschool i was friends with everyone.. Not popular but i was friends with the nerds the cheerleaders all around everyone, they knew me etcc..
when i got outta hs i still had my group of friends still doing everything on the weekend, and i know after u start to drift but it was still good 2 yrs and we were all still friends.. then i had a kid and some got married, now non ever wanna talk to me.. no text no fb messages even if i comment they still want nothing to do with me!
Also my neighbor was one of my best friends.. we been thru everything her parents divorse, her mom even had an affair and we found out together.. and now she has dropped me from her life.. i dont understand if its me or them.. I now have very little friends and i rarely get to leave my house cuz i noone wants to hang out!
Answer by Dahis at 11:18 AM on Jun. 14, 2011
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Answer by Heathercurlz at 11:26 AM on Jun. 14, 2011
If you find this a repeating issue... then the issue is YOU.
If you really can not figure it out, then see a therapist to help you sort it out.
Perhaps you are looking for one person to be the be-all, end-all friend. You can have many friends for many different activities. Each person doesnt have to be a complete friend on every level... that could be tiring. You can have friends that are great for playdates at the park. You can have friends that are good for couples activities. You could have friends that are good for just one on one coffee chat. Perhaps you are putting too much pressure on people.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:31 AM on Jun. 14, 2011