8 years. 3 kids. He's been a pot smoker who has lied about his habit for the entire 8 years. I have developed a huge mistrust in him and it comes through in my attitude. The irony of the situation is that I insisted he go to therapy to get over his lying problems and the therapist helped him see how I"M THE PROBLEM! NOT HIM!!! wtf. So I get an Email of all things saying he's coming home to pack.
I have been putting up with this lying ass for all these years for the kids and now he wants to leave?
So I suggested that I go to therapy so perhaps I can get over all the lies and hurt that he has done to me - simply to save the family.
Am I right or stupid for trying to change me instead of him now?
Yes, pot is the only issue, otherwise he's decent all around.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:11 PM on Jun. 14, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by LANDENSMOMMYlmk at 1:32 PM on Jun. 14, 2011
Never stay in a relationship "for the kids" it's not a good idea & it's not healthy for the kids, kids are better off with their parents separated instead of together & fighting all the time & kids can sense when parents don't love each other don't under estimate kids their smarter then we think. If he doesn't want to be with you then let him go, your better off without him anyways why would you want someone who can't see his wrong & is trying to blame you for everything. REALLY?!. GL!
Answer by VanillaBlondie8 at 1:36 PM on Jun. 14, 2011