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Do you find yourself more or less judgemental now that you are a parent?

While pregnant I was super judgemental when I saw parents in public with their kids, I had thoughts like "oh I will never do that with my kid, or my kid wont do that in public" Now that I am a parent, Im like wow, I was super judgemental because I had no clue what it was really like to be a parent.


Asked by mitchellb at 1:55 PM on Jun. 14, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • I wasn't very judgemental before and was pretty patient. I'm probably even less judgemental and (hopefully) more patient. DH has become more patient too.

    Answer by jmpj8107 at 2:36 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

  • I have never been very judgmental, and after having kids, even less...

    Answer by older at 1:58 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

  • I am less jugdementsl now that I am a mother of 4,

    Answer by connorsmommy77 at 2:07 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

  • Way less judgmental about other people's parenting.

    Answer by SWasson at 2:18 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

  • Sometimes, I'm judgmental about things that I shouldn't be. I'm working on that! =)

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:56 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

  • Oh..but to answer your question.. I'm more judgmental now that I have children.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:56 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

  • No... I'm more understanding about some things, but now I'm just judgemental about a whole new world of things that wasn't even on my radar before becoming a mom. :)

    Answer by Sebbiemama at 3:54 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

  • I was less judgmental before cafemom. the people I met in real life were NEVER like some of the people I met here.
    Or else their crazy life choices were well hidden.


    Answer by Anonymous at 4:28 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

  • Much less.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 2:10 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

  • more, I notice WAY more idiots unfortunately.

    Answer by GirlWithANikon at 4:28 PM on Jun. 14, 2011

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