the guy raped me 7 years ago and came to me recently and asked to put my son on his pension so that my son will get a check every month...child support in a way. i know that they will ask for dna test since the father's name is nt on the birth certificate. i tried to google info and didnt find anything that pertained to my situation, they just had info on adding newborns not older children. the guy gave the form to fill out and we are going to the VA later this week, i just want to know what to expect. im feeling frustrated right now so any advice as to what to google for or if you or your spouse had to add kids to his/yours pension..
i been thinking about whether to go through this or not for a couple of weeks, not an easy choice cause of what he did to me. he called today and said its not about me its about making sure our son is provided for and gets every advantage possible.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:06 PM on Jun. 14, 2011 in Money & Work
What you can expect is a lot of leg work on your part so make sure you keep your records organized of every phone number; email address and person's you encounter. At times what seems simple it’s more complicated than you think especially in dealing the government benefits.
You might to ask your question here as well. GL
Answer by musicmom08 at 10:46 AM on Jun. 16, 2011
Answer by meooma at 7:48 PM on Jun. 14, 2011
Answer by dnanner at 7:52 PM on Jun. 14, 2011