I am a single mother. My child who is under 3 has been under my care 24-7 since the day of birth. Father has never really been in the picture, but IS on the birth certificate. He's a piece of shit, good for nothing. Now the only reason any of this is happening is because he came around after months of not seeing his kid and calling his kid a bastard to me, and all he wants is to sleep with me. I told him no more, he's done - never to see my child again. His issue with controlling me took over and now he's trying to drag me to court.
I was set to move a few weeks ago, out of state, but not far. It got pushed back (I haven't heard a word from this guy in MONTHS) and now I am ready to move near July 1st and I get this letter being served from the state!! WTH can I do?? I am not ruining my life and my child's life and staying in this state because of him.
There is no court date set yet, legally what can I do? CAN I LEAVE STATE?? Pretend I never got the letter?? NO ONE has custody, we've never been married or been to court.
I know plenty of you will say I am stupid, etc. etc. - but I have to get us away from him. Please help me. I've been crying all day since I found out. =/
He is doing this to control me - nothing to do with our kid. He also has another kid that is over 10 he has NEVER seen. He doesn't care!!! =/
Asked by Anonymous at 12:18 AM on Jun. 15, 2011 in General Parenting
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