I am married to my Pastor's son. I am a minister and have been since before we were dating. Our relationship was fine until he moved in with his mom. Sure we did some things that were not "Holy" but we both repented and got it together. I always felt that his family didn't think I was good enough for him. We went through hell and decided to ellope. We did that cause he was too afraid to tell her how he felt about me. Of course, everyone feels like I coerced him into it and they don't respect our marriage. They easily forgave him because he plays the goodboy roll and he is the Pastor's baby and won't stand up for our marriage. They make me feel so uncomfortable and like I don't belong. I loved the church and the people but now I feel so unwanted there. I'm hurting because I want to go somewhere I and we can be happy. But he is happy. I was willing to stay until I realized he wasn't even considering how I feel.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:14 PM on Dec. 11, 2008 in Religion & Beliefs
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Answer by sew4heaven at 11:05 PM on Dec. 11, 2008
You must follow the proper procedures and follow your husband.
Huh? What century is this? "Proper procedures" - what does that entail and who gets to say what the proper procedures are?
You state that he moved in with his mom - are you separated? If not, he needs to take your feelings into consideration. You BOTH eloped, not just you. There needs to be a happy medium somewhere, but he has to stand up for your marriage to mommy and daddy dearest - and that is his fault that he doesnt. And you deserve that respect, which HE should be giving to you. If you havent told him how you feel, I think its time you do. Living the rest of your life unhappily and uncomfortable is not a quality life.
Answer by dragonfly7271 at 11:21 PM on Dec. 11, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 11:23 PM on Dec. 11, 2008
Well, first of all, I am a Christian. And second, I have a right to my opinion, and I gave it. And last I looked this was a free country and a public forum. And as God took the rib from Adam and made Eve, he made her his partner. They are equals, and he should stand up for their marriage. And btw - all caps is yelling - just so you know.
Answer by dragonfly7271 at 11:30 PM on Dec. 11, 2008
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