Status : Married for 2 years.
Me : Emotional, Romantic, Affectionate.
Him : Selfish : his pleasure + convenience always come first.
I'm kind of tired emotionally, so my question is:
Would the following thing bother you ?
Yesterday we had a night out.
We visited a nice area with 10 restaurants. At the entrance of 1 place, there was a young girl with very long hair.
My husband said : let's have dinner AT THAT restaurant (he pointed at the girl ). So I asked if this was our only option, as there were 9 more restaurants to consider right there.
Then we went to the cinema: there were two floors; on one floor there were two teenage girls with tiny shorts, and my husband moved towards them - wherever they were going. They walked towards a parking lot, so I laughed and said : what do we do now ? Follow them to their car ?
He's always acted this way : wherever we go, he sits close to the prettiest girl in the room, be it at the gym, at the cinema, etc.
After 2 years, it starts to bother me, and I don't enjoy being with him in public, as I feel he does not appreciate me.
Am I right to feel this ?
He's 55, I'm 35.
He has an office job, (non-managerial); I was a Manager and resigned to be with him.
He is athletic and looks younger than his age, and people say we look like siblings (similar facial features, only he's much heavier than me).
Yes, I was crazy in love with him. BIG MISTAKE, but it's never too late to make things right.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:15 AM on Jun. 15, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by momov4kids at 10:17 AM on Jun. 15, 2011
OMG you need to leave him he sounds like a disrespectful dog I'm sorry but that is so wrong in so many levels what he is doing, I mean if he does that in your face I can imagine what he does behind your back, It sounds like he'll even cheat on you sorry to say. Leave him girl you don't need a man like that you need a man who is going to respect you & love you truly don't put up with that your better then that.
P.S. And it's gross that a grown man is checking out teenage girls (not cool)
Answer by VanillaBlondie8 at 10:26 AM on Jun. 15, 2011
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