We have a six month old and I had a c-section so sex wasn't really high on MY priority list for a long time. So about a month a go I finally started getting back in the mood and so we went for it. I was so excited about it but it lasted like 3 minutes, I swear. I timed it. I thought maybe its because its been so long....WRONG!!! We have had sex at least 4 more times and I felt like crap. I even got some nice lingerie (that he picked out) to try to keep things going . He would get his kicks and that was it. Then, I would complain about it and he would say, "We're not done for the night, so be ready." (cheesy, huh?) So, I'd wait for the second course and then I'd realize he had fallen asleep. So, I told him no more bed romps until he can get his shit together because I'm sick of the 2 pump chump. What would you do? Any advice as a way to handle this?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:24 PM on Dec. 11, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by mama2twins07 at 11:26 PM on Dec. 11, 2008
Wouldn't withholding just make the problem worse, since he won't build up any endurance? Sorry, I don't know how to make it better though.
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