Is this the way all guys think?
I admit it, I'm very ignorant about a lot of things, especially about relationships. I married 20 yrs ago at age 19 to the only guy I was ever with, I never even dated before him. In many ways, before and after marriage, I've been very sheltered. (until I started hanging out on the internet)
Lately, I've been paying attention to some of the things my dh says to me. He often talks to me about things he sees, hears or learns about and shares his options with me.
Every time he hears about someone's marriage or relationship ending it's always, "well, SHE must of just want to do it with someone else" or she just wants to keep/ spend his money while she gets to sleep around. Always along those lines. If he hears the guy cheated, it's...well, maybe she wouldn't give him none, or maybe she was cheating and he got tired of it.
To hear him talk all girls want money, someone to spend money on them and sex.
It's like he believes that all relationships revolve around sex and if it ends, it's always related to sex and it always the females fault. Not friendship or common interest or enjoying each others company. It's sex.
He's normally a great guy, an excellent dad, very responsible. But when he talks like this it makes me worry what he must secretly think of me. I'm female! Yes, he's says I'm different, that's why he's with me, but what if?
I'm getting older. If someday, I can't do my "wifely duty " , do I suddenly become them? Those that "refuse to for no good reason" and then I'm no longer a use to him.
It really bugs me when he says these things. Maybe I'm overly sensitive, don't know.
Do all guys think similar too this? Just wondering.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:27 PM on Jun. 15, 2011 in Relationships
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