I have tried very hard to get along with my brother wife, especially now that is about to give birth to my first nephew ( their first child ) .
I am not exagerating when i say that she has tried everything to put a wedge between my brother and our family, and honestly we have NEVER done anything to make her want to do that ( the first time we met her she instantly dis-liked us ) . Which after we found out she was once married to one of my moms co-workers, we realized that it really wasn't us, it is her, because she also did the same thing to him and his family ( which is why he divorced her a couple years ago) .
Anyways, my family and I are very excited about the new baby, the only other kids in the family are mine and they are school aged, so it is just exciting that we are going to have a baby around again.
She has already set some rules about when we can visit ( we have to give a 3 days notice) , which I can understand but it is still insulting because her family and friends do not have to go by this rule) ... but we are willing to deal with that.
Well the reason I am writing this is because i am still upset from this past weekend which was her babyshower . I got a few outfits, a few baby toys and then I got this silver baby music box, which his name engraved ... i spent alot of time and money getting it, because it is something we got for my kids as well, and I just considered it something special ( a keepsake) ... It isnt that big ( a little bigger than the size of my hand) , so it isnt like it is a big disraction or anything like that, so I am sure the reason she is complaining about it not matching the baby's room decore is just her being spiteful...
Before giving it to her at the shower I had shown my brother and he loved it, because like my kids, my brother and I also had them when we were little ( my mom still has them sitting out in her house ) ... He even said that he had tried to find one, but couldnt find any he liked...So after she told me she didnt like it she told my brother if he likes it so much he can put it in his office at work...
So not only was she rude ( in front of everyone at the babyshower she says " Oh i dont think i really would want something like this in his room" and snarls up her lip as she sits it down like it is a bug or something) ...but I really believe she did it on purpose , if she really cared THAT much about how the babys room looked, I think the room would actualy be more put together or something... she has several none baby things laying around in there, and you would surely notice those thing before noticing this little keepsake.
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