My x and I are on bad terms. After the divorce I tried to reconcile with him for the sake of our daughter but he said in short "no way, we are done, and don't care how it effects our daughter." Thats the back ground, here is the issue. I found on my daughter's computer inappropriate pictures of herself. I asked her if she sent them to anyone and she said no, and when I confronted her and she felt very bad about it and felt she let me down. I grounded her for a month, took away computer, and cell phone for a month. I then told her I had to tell her dad and she broke down and cried and begged me not to because he would ground her for a year+, take away her allowance for a year+, and would never let this down, in short she felt her dad would overreact. My daughter is a straight A student, and has been a role model up to this point. I decided to not tell my x-husband based on our poor realtionship and my concern he could overreact and make more issue of this which could potentially push my daughter away. Here's the question My current husband strongly feels that I should tell my x-husband regardless of the potential concequences to my daughter? What do you think?
He is concerned that she may be playing both households and that this sets a bad example. He brings up that there may be more going on that this may be the tip of the iceberg.
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