my bf is having a fit cause my wanted to stay over to see his kids. he doesnt have his own place so he cant take the kids with him. he sleeps in the living room and he is just there for the kids not me....he gets up when the kids get up so i can get some rest, so i guess it would kinda be for me. and now my bf is making threats that he gonna wake me and my kids up if finds my ex here....
Asked by Anonymous at 12:31 AM on Dec. 12, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by hopelessnance at 12:49 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
Answer by Slinkee at 12:34 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
Bad situation. I can understand if he doesn't have a place to stay but he could take the kids out to some place like the library or an indoor activity. I can understand your BF being upset because he is spending the night. I also understand that he's there for the kids but it's just a very odd/unusual situation that I believe most people would be real uncomfortable with.
Answer by Southerncharmes at 12:35 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 12:37 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
Answer by admckenzie at 1:01 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
Answer by Rebecca7708 at 1:05 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
I used to do that before I got remarried. I would let my ex stay at the house sometimes when he came to get the boys. Last year we let my husband's ex wife stay with us for a couple days when she flew my step son back to us. It was fine. I think as long as everyone has trust and knows their boundaries it is fine.
Answer by Magpie75 at 1:08 AM on Dec. 12, 2008