My husband has a problem, unfortunatly.
He plays with women online, flirts and talks on the phone and occasionally meets them.
One just called my house tonight. She is a Muslim girl as well. He met her in a hotel and they had sex.
I found out about it a week ago and still have not forgiven him, but I am not ready to give up on my marriage for my kids sake. This just opened up old wounds. She is hurt by him too, he told her he was divorced.
What can I do about this? I love him so much and he loves me, but he is sick.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:05 AM on Dec. 12, 2008 in Religion & Beliefs
Answer by Anonymous at 1:10 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
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Answer by Anonymous at 2:04 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
In our religion if a husband did that and was not repentant he would be disfellowshipped and the wife has the right to divorce him. the Bible says if a Brother (a Brother in Faith can also be your husband) sins and you know it that you are to confront him so that he will see the error and repent if you see and do nothing you can become a sharer with him in his sin by hiding it.This would be in harmony with Leviticus 5:1
Christian married couples also need to be careful that they do not violate God’s laws by covering over each other’s serious sins. They should remember the case of Ananias and Sapphira, who conspired but unsuccessfully sought to cover over serious sin. (Acts 5:1-11)
Answer by lisarose45 at 4:16 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
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Answer by b_cheerful at 9:54 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
My first husband cheated on me. Religion did not make me trust my husband once I knew that he had cheated numerous times. My heart was broken and my self esteem was destroyed. I wondered why was'nt I enough for him. He hurt me to the deepest depth of my being. He was a sex addict and there was no way I could stay with him. I still love this man and wish him well 20 yrs later. He is still morally corrupt and void of emotional stability. Your husband sounds like he has the same traits as my ex...the phone, the internet, flirting openly. You need to send him to therapy regardless of what religon you are. Sex addiction is as dangerous as drug and alcohol addiction and a 12 step program exists with plenty of free support for both you and your husband.
Answer by ETxYaya at 9:56 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
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