Why do we feel we need to cut someone down to feel better about ourselves? I just don't get it. Why do we have to try and one up them on their stories or make their troubles not so bad. We are ALL here for support, help and a safe place to vent. I have only been on here a short time and there are some ladies who just need to take a step back. Would you want to be judged the way you are judging? Would you want to hear those negative comments if you were in that situation? My momma taught me "if you don't have something nice to say, then DON'T say it!" If there is a post I have read that I completely disagree I go to the next question or comment. When I post I try and give my opinion, without bashing the other woman. I have even been in some of the same places they are in. BUT, until you have walked a mile in their shoes and are going through what they are going through don't be hateful. Even if you have been in their shoes, we all need to support each other and help them through their struggle. To find out what they should do in their specific situation.
Not trying to start a debate or hateful comments. Just want to know why we as women think this is the best way? Because, I for one do not agree with it. Thanks for reading.
Answer by judimary at 11:48 PM on Jun. 15, 2011
Well said !!
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