My DH has all these "great ideas" that work for him, and wants everyone to do as he says, even if you feel it will not benefit you at all. Then, when it doesn't work out, he gets mad at everyone else except himself.
If you're sitting there wondering "what kinds things?"...here we go.
He wanted me to quit work and be a SAHM, he wouldn't shut up about it. I told him that I felt I wouldn't enjoy it, and all this other stuff. Does he listen? Nope. He rants, bitches, moans...everything under this world until I quit work. He wouldn't help me with our DD, wouldn't help me clean, ect...
It just became too much. I would talk to him, he would give me the same ole excuse, "if you'd quit work, these things wouldn't stress you as much, don't bitch to me about it, just quit work" or "you working puts stress on our marriage". Well, I finally quit in January.
It's June, and now he wants me to get a job because HE despises me because I'm a stay at home mom and because things are not up to HIS standards. He basically wants me to become a "Stepford Wife". Then, I told him I would get a job. He tells me if it's not X amount a year, then it's pointless because we wouldn't be able to afford a maid.
Now, he will admit he "was wrong for wanting me to quit work." But, still blames me because when have I ever listened to him and done as I'm ask to do.
REALLY?!?!??! YOU want to PLAY THAT CARD?!?!?!?!
So, I'm just at wits ends. Everyone else fault but his own.
I've told him over and over again that I'm not paying for a maid. He can help, and if he doesn't want to, then he'll live with what he has.
I'm sooooooooooooooooo fucking tired of this crap. So, so tired.
Oh yeah, and talking never works with him. Ever. He just finds some loop hole to push it back on me.
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