We were having a discussion about business and work. I told him I can't handle him working another job, it's too much for me, stress wise, to not have a moment to myself ever, I don't like being a sahm, and I'd rather work part time.
Well he got a second job and said he is taking it and going to work there, I basically told him then he might as well not be with me because our relationship is already on the rocks, if he is going to be working 7 days a week and we will never see each other, and the job he just got is crap, starbucks, when he can easily put more time and energy into his own business that brings him 45 dollars for an hour session easily.
He said starbucks is guaranteed, and I said 1 hour doing your own business is 5 hours at starbucks. So I said what is so important at starbucks that you'd rather spend 5x's the amount out of the house than if you were to just do your own business and work harder in it. No answer.
I said no, If you can work 1 hour the same amount you can work 5 hours somwhere else, and you choose to be gone 5 hours over one, just live out your car I am done. He's all if you can't hanle me being gone that much then why don't you just die, just end it for yourself.
I am so pissed. I am just at the point where I swear if he comes back and doesn't give me a complete apology and kiss my ass, I am done with him. I have no need to be with him. At the most I will just use him, every dime he brings in, will be in my pocket, I am done. Not helping anymore, not down for this anymore. I instatnly just felt shut off and like feelings evaporated into thin air.
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