I am dating this fella and we have been together for some time. He recently moved back to his hometime and reconnected with old friends. I am currently visiting him and meet his family and friends. He is friends with a few females and that is fine. His roommate is a female and i am cool with that. the one thing i have a problem with is one female friend. His other female friends have said to stay away from her and i have shared my feelings about her. He said that she is just a friend and that nothing would ever happen with her. I dont trust her. I have not met her and he doesnt seem to want me to meet her. It makes me wonder why. he tells me i dont have to be threatened by her. 2 of his female friends have said she is a drama queen and a slut. I have also gotten that vibe from her. She has texted him and he has texted her. He doesnt tell me when they talk. It seems to be a problem in our relationship. I want to meet her. I saw on his facebook acct that he made plans to go on the boat with her after i leave. I told him he didnt have to wait till i leave to take her out. He knows i want to meet her. I think she is a skank so does some of the girls that went to school with her. His roommate included. I told him she wants more than just a friendship. He wanted to know how i knew. I told him it was female intution. He said that if she tried any thing then he would tell her to f off. I trust him but not her. I dont want this to continue to be an issue in our relationship. She does live about an hour and half from here. Should i just trust him and see what happens or should i be worried?
what you any of you do in this situation.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:51 AM on Jun. 17, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by ILoveCade at 7:01 AM on Jun. 17, 2011
I would drop it! He's not with her, he's with you and when you go "stirring things up", they tend to have a way of biting you in the ass! If all his friends see her this way, I'm sure he does too. Just go about your business and show you have class! You have to have trust in him until he gives you reason not to!
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