Ok we have been paying CS for 12 yrs. now and close to finishing well we always felt that we wish we could just pay the kids CS bc there is no telling where the rest of the money is going once the kids get taking care of well now that they'll be of age my dh has been giving them cash money and filling up their gas tanks which I do not mind butdamn it sucks bc sometimes we don't have much and when they come over to visit he some how gives them money... Wouldn't mind it if he don't bitch about not having money but I tell him you've already spoiled them bc NOW they are expecting it from you now he's like I am going to do what I have to do for my (teens).
This is one of the reasons I fell in love with him the love for his kids and now we have 2 of r own. Anyway I over heard him telling them that as soon as he is done paying their mom CS he is going to start using that money towards them...WTF? She gets 1000.00 a month where does that leave me and r kids yes he is good to us but damn what he is doing is enough. I guess what Iam saying here is I just wish he would stop complaining about money bc all I can think of is YOU DON'T HAVE TO GIVE THEM MONEY EVERYTIME YOU SEE THEM...I know it's just me feeling like this but it sucks feeling like we have no money ever.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:13 AM on Jun. 17, 2011 in Teens (13-17)
Answer by kimigogo at 11:16 AM on Jun. 17, 2011
Answer by yesmaam at 11:22 AM on Jun. 17, 2011
Answer by ria7 at 11:29 AM on Jun. 17, 2011
At least he will be giving the kids the money after they are of age instead of giving it to their mom. At least he is not a dead beat dad and wanting to take care of his responsibilities.
Answer by My3Ez at 11:34 AM on Jun. 17, 2011
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