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Is there something wrong with me?

So I have 2 step sons that are over 18. They always bring their friends by and they have this one friend that they keep telling me has the biggest crush on me. I am 10 years older than him but for some reason the thought of this younger guy thinking of me that way makes me feel good! I would never do anything to act on it, I love dh dearly  and when someone brings it up I just laugh about it and say "well he can have a crush but I am a happily married woman" but I think just the thought of someone else finding me attractive makes me feel good about myself ?? IDK does it make me horrible to like the fact that knowing he finds me attractive brings?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:03 PM on Jun. 17, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • NO, and consider yourself lucky, being that I am 44 and DS is 6,,, I will never be a milf,,, LOL!

    Answer by kimigogo at 1:04 PM on Jun. 17, 2011

  • I think we all like to feel someone is attracted to us. Nothing wrong with that.

    Answer by meooma at 1:06 PM on Jun. 17, 2011

  • Ego boosts are always a good thing. Just keep saying what you have been saying and laugh it off and enjoy your ego boost.

    Answer by Sithpadawans at 1:11 PM on Jun. 17, 2011

  • No. That's normal.

    Answer by Syphon at 1:39 PM on Jun. 17, 2011

  • never a shame feeling good about your self esxpecially if you dont wanna act on it!

    Answer by aliciareichle at 1:46 PM on Jun. 17, 2011

  • HELL NO! I had an OLD guy fire on me the other day and I felt good at least someone still looks at me!

    Answer by mommerbean at 2:31 PM on Jun. 17, 2011

  • No, it's normal. I get it all the time and it makes me feel great. I don't want to mess with some youngster but it makes me smile.

    Answer by admckenzie at 2:34 PM on Jun. 17, 2011

  • No its normal you sexy mama ! :)

    Answer by Emmajosmommy at 3:13 PM on Jun. 17, 2011

  • There is nothing wrong with that!!

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 3:15 PM on Jun. 17, 2011

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