Ugh.. I don't even know where to begin. My husband and I have been having problems sinec Christmas. I have no idea what happened, btu he went home to go see his mom with dd for a week. And when he came back he would barely talk to me, wouldn't kiss me anything. He went 3 months without even telling me he loved me. I think he might be cheating on me (I have my reasons, not going to go into details here) but he won't admitt anything. Well the other day out of no where he just came up and start hugging on me and telling me loved me, and even said he was going to put his wedding ring back on. (which he hasn't done). And we had sex for the first time in over 4 months. I am just so confused... and hurt and angry. I want to make it work, but I just don't know if I can. How am I supposed to forgive and forget everything he has said and done in the last few months? How can I erase him saying "you're the biggest mistake I ever made"?
On top of that my job is driving me crazy. I work with MR/DD adults in a work center. It's stressful to say the least. I love all my clients very very much, but some days they just drive me crazy. And my co-worker is the most annyoing woman in the world. She will say "you know what I mean?" every 20 seconds in a conversation. There's days I just want to close my office door and hide. I make good money and it's a salary job with benefits. We can't afford for me to quit. And I'm not going to find anotehr job in this area that will pay the same with my degree.
So I have people in my face all day at work, a co-worker who drives me crazy and an 18 mo old baby who is a complete monster when she comes home from daycare. she wants my complete undivided attention all night. So I'm trying to deal with a scraeming toddler, clean and cook dinner (dh works 12 hr days in a factory). And I jsut can't deal with it anymore. I feel like shit. I am exhausted ALL the time. I had a great aunt pass away monday morning and her funeral is tomorrow, but I told my boss it was today just so I could come home for a few hours of peace. And the peace has been so nice it just made me realize how stressed and exhausted I am.
I just don't know what to do... I wnat to make things wokr with my husband, but I don't know if I can or not. Something needs to change that much is obvious. I can't keep going like this.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:16 PM on Jun. 17, 2011 in General Parenting
Answer by CarriePM at 5:18 PM on Jun. 17, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 5:22 PM on Jun. 17, 2011
Answer by dwmom2008 at 5:40 PM on Jun. 17, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 5:43 PM on Jun. 17, 2011
sorry that's all I have to offer!! Just try to stay positive and I like the idea of a therapist, seems like there are issues that need to get worked out!
Answer by MommyYeoman at 5:44 PM on Jun. 17, 2011
Answer by amandajoy21 at 11:41 PM on Jun. 17, 2011