I am getting ready to leave my boyfriend. I've finally realized that he is mentally abusive to me and my children (who are not his), and I am getting things in order to get out.
In noticing all the different things that are abusive, I've noticed this about him: whenever he is irritated, frustrated, angry, etc. with some woman he deals with for work, in a store, etc., he will refer to her as a wh*re or a c**t. I am finding this incredibly offensive and disrespectful.
But given that I am irritated with most aspects of him right now, I don't know if it truly is offensive and disrespectful or if I'm blowing it out of proportion so it can be another reason to add to the list of why I'm leaving him. I mean, I know it's offensive and disrespectful, but I don't know if I'm finding it more so as a result of the circumstances.
Am I overreacting or is it as a big a deal as I think it is?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:09 PM on Jun. 17, 2011 in Relationships
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