Ok, long story short, my "loving husband" and I lost our house some time ago and when we were getting ready to move out he told me that he didn't want me and our DD living with him. He claimed that he just needed some time "to find himself" or something like that, but I suspect that what he was trying to find was more time with the girlfriend that I found out about not long after he left. Because of him refusing to let us live with him I had to move in with my brother who ended up moving back our home state (a 4 hour drive from where we were all living) so I no longer had a place to stay in that state, and because my job didn't pay well I started looking for a second job but my boss thought I was looking for a different job and so I was replaced. Fast forward, I ended up moving back in with my parents in another state. Since the move my husband has been refusing any and all contact with me or our DD and I'm almost positive it's because of his girlfriend. He refuses to divorce me because he doesn't want to pay child support, so I have to wait a few more months before I can file on my own. Now here's the big question, recently a really great guy (who knows my situation) has started to show interest in me, and I'm wondering if I should even think about persuing anything with him in the future. I'm not talking about jumping into a relationship right away, but I think it would be nice to go out every now and again, even if it's just a friendship thing. This guy isn't trying to rush things and I don't think that this would be a "dating" thing. But I do wonder if it would be a good idea to go on a casual date from time to time. What do you think ladies? Wait around for the hubby to get bored with his GF or pull away completely and go out on a date?Answer Question
Answer by Melbornj at 9:59 PM on Jun. 17, 2011
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