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How do you "unfriend" someone in real life?

I have a close friend who desires tonot to be friends with a lady she has been friends with for a few years. She has good reason, and has been trying to distance herself but this lady is relentless and isnt taking he hint. Any suggestions?

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sarlove01

Asked by sarlove01 at 3:17 AM on Jun. 18, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • Yes she will have to verbalize nicely that the friendship is no longer working and while she enjoyed the times they had together she has to not "hang out" with her again. At least thats what I do!
    Butterflitter

    Answer by Butterflitter at 3:21 AM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • i would just tell her im sorry but i cant be your friend no more and give her the reason and just say im sorry that it has came down to this
    britt2thabrat

    Answer by britt2thabrat at 3:22 AM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • I agree with Butterflitter 100%
    Ashemery83

    Answer by Ashemery83 at 3:43 AM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • just turn the page !!! ignore her attitude cause if she really deserve ur freindship she woud talk to youand explane to you ..for sure u'll understand we 'r all adulte ;) .... dont even thing abt her ;) dsn't worth !!!!
    caramelH

    Answer by caramelH at 5:31 AM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • She could say something like 'we are not a good match any longer' or something similar. And tell her reasons. She needs to always be busy with other things and not have the time to see the lady. I would often say 'I had plans' even if the plans were to sit and enjoy a cup of coffee. It's hard, but the lady should eventually get the message. GL!
    whitepeppers

    Answer by whitepeppers at 7:15 AM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • be honest tell her the reason and end the conversation and friendship
    rinamomof2

    Answer by rinamomof2 at 5:41 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

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