After 4 years of marriage, I can confirm :
My husband is NOT ROMANTIC AT ALL (with me!).
Last week we heared on the radio a song that I thought to be
"OUR SONG" when we first dated. He didn't know the song he said,
and didn't recall how we'd say this song talks about our love.
Well, he's got CDs with love songs for his big loves in the past.
I don't mind for his past memories, but with me he's never been sweet
and romantic. There is no CD or movie to remind him of us, and he certainly
bought this stuff for his mystery ex's, but he never even thought of doing such
a nice gesture for me.
I feel angry right now, cause all these years he convinced me that being emotional is "NOT HIS TYPE", but he's been Mr Romantic in his past relationships, especially 2 of those.
It's the unfair treatment that P*sses me off !!! Is it ok to feel this ?
Thanks ladies for your answers.
My issue is, how come he was romantic with his ex's, but not with me?
I don't think I am "the one" for him, as the souvenirs of his ex lovers are soooo romantic, but he's NEVER been that way with me.
I've been thinking of the times he failed to defend me in front of his mother, or the times he encouraged other women to flirt him.
I feel I've loved him to death, and it hurts to see that IT'S NOT MUTUAL. I don't want to be his victim, so I guess I'll just split.
Good luck to you all.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:21 AM on Jun. 18, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 9:42 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
Answer by cdecker83 at 9:43 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
You are allowed to feel anyway you want. Hubs and me are not romantic in the least and it works our PERFECT for us. We are however very secure and comfortable and safe in our relationship, so romance isn't necessary or important in all relationships. If its important and/or necessary for you then talk to him about your needs and desires.
Answer by meooma at 10:55 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 9:28 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 9:48 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 9:53 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
Answer by charlotsomtimes at 10:58 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
Answer by incarnita at 10:19 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
Answer by NubianQueen78 at 10:20 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
Answer by Dkhilly at 11:16 AM on Jun. 18, 2011
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