I have an ex that keeps trying to comminucate with me. We broke up 4 years ago beacause he was abusive, both physically and pychologically. I stayed with him out of fear, for 10 years....he asked me to marry him but i always thought in the back of my head "HELL NO" i wanted to leave him so bad after the 1st year. it was awful.....my family doesnt know any of this and they think he was great for me.
7 months after I had the courage to breake up with him. I found the true love of my life and 3 years later had a baby with him. Things are great and as I imagined it should be. Im finally happy.
my EXfound out this and went crazy.... called my house- my job with bad things and swearing at me while he crying and screaming....he followed me while I was nursing school, he would be at he library, cafetreria, parking lot. He got a tattoo of my name HUGE on his back. He continually tried communicating with me and asked WHY did I leave. I always talked to him kindly b/c I was scared he would go crazier.....now he keeps sending me messages of Facebook saying things like .... "Im worried about you, ive been having dreams of u...could you be a friend and tell me how you doing"... 1 message prior to this i told him to stop and we could never be friends b/c he was my ex. he agreed.....
Well after all this time I finally have my self esteem and confidance back completely and I just want toREALLY tell him what I feel .... and curse him out!..... im so angry for all those years he was so abusive and unkind.....HE should know...he thinks he was great..... I want closure.... but i wonder is truly sick in the head that he is someone that u cant say something to?? Would he literally fo crazy?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:06 AM on Jun. 18, 2011 in Relationships
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