I have been through 2 divorces, not by my choice...It is tough, I know. It hurts, I know. However, there is life after divorce!!! One day at a time, one hour at a time, one minute at a time....Keep yourself busy, and active. If you have friends, spend a TON of time with them, if you have family, spend a ton of time with them. The busier you are, the less you "think" about your situation. As time goes along, you will hurt less. Pain eases with time. You may never forget, but you will hurt less. I had my gf spend the night with me many nights, just so I wouldn't be alone. But being alone doesn't mean you have to be "lonely". You will heal, with time. I did, there were a LOT of changes I had to make in my life, and after 2 divorces, 1 failed relationship, moving to another state, I met my dh, and he is awesome. We are not without "stuff", but I love him dearly, and he is THE best thing that ever happened to me! Chin up!
at 3:38 PM on Jun. 18, 2011