I have had the worst last few months anyone can imagine... I lost my fiance, the father of my unborn baby... and if that wasnt hard enough, today I seen his obituary, and now not only am I more heartbroken, I am ANGRY !
Now before I have anyone bashing me, I want to say, his marriage was already over, and even then, I am not the one who had vows to her, it is not my fault, not my problem that they were getting divorced.
We met and fell in love, shortly after I got pregnant with our miracle baby ( he had a vesectomy years ago, after his other children were born) ... he moved in with me and filed for divorce from her. We we so happy, but it didnt last long, and here I am, going to have to have my baby all by myself....
Ok, so the reason you might be wondering is why I am so angry over his obituary is because i wrote a beautiful one and expected it to be used, i also was planning on making his funeral arangments, but none of that happened... I guess since they are still legally married, everyone has to ignore the pregnant fiance he was living with.
She made all of the funeral plans, I had no say, and then his obituary said that he left behind his wife of 9 years, his 2 children, and then the rest of his family and such... and then clear at the bottom of it, it says and his special friend, *my name* .... no she couldnt possibly say that I was his fiance, or that she is his EX , and of course no mention of our unborn child...
I mean how do I even get over something like that ?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:58 PM on Jun. 18, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by djavongirl at 3:01 PM on Jun. 18, 2011
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Answer by emmyandlisa at 3:24 PM on Jun. 18, 2011
I dont thing you heard the part about not wanting his children to have their last memory of their father to be as a cheater. Those children and their feeling come before everything else. I am sorry that you are grieving, I hope you find some compassion for the family he created before he met you.
Answer by ochsamom at 3:40 PM on Jun. 18, 2011
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