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Really a motel party for my 7yr old step-son?

I cant believe that bio mom is having a motel party for my 7yr old ss birthday no pool or anything she posted on her facebook text her to find out the room # this is trashy just plain trashy what the heck is wrong with having to at her house?


Asked by rinamomof2 at 5:49 PM on Jun. 18, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • tootoobusy must be a trashy bio mom who would give her child a motel party, probably so she wouldnt get caught with any contraband...This is totally trashy...and suspicious too, I could see it if there was a pool

    Answer by shivasgirl at 6:10 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • sounds like she doesn't want to clean up!

    Answer by mrsary at 5:49 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • Sounds like a stupid idea to me... mrsary is probably right, she probably doesn't want the mess, but it's still a stupid idea, esp for a 7 yr old.. What happened to an old fashioned cake and ice cream party at home with a few family and friends?? lol. You should have one for him, make his favorite meal, and cake, etc, the next time you have him.

    Answer by MrsLeftlane at 5:54 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • Wow, that seems kind of crazy. I can see getting a small ballroom for a big bash, or using the pool, but a motel room? Seems weird.

    Answer by musicpisces at 6:15 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

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    Answer by CafeMom Admin at 6:59 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • Is the hotel at the beach?

    Answer by tootoobusy at 5:53 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • Maybe that's what he asked for?

    Answer by tspillane at 5:55 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • Never heard of having a birthday party at a motel.

    Answer by CometGirl at 5:59 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • I did for my daughter and it was a lot of fun.

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 5:59 PM on Jun. 18, 2011

  • I guess I am just confused as to why you would want to have a party at a motel... Maybe we are missing something here...

    Answer by But_Mommie at 6:42 PM on Jun. 18, 2011