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Does this make me a lesbian?

I would never have sex with another woman ever, but when I am with my SO I fantasize about women in general. I love my SO and he is great in bed, but sometimes to get "the big O" I think of women. Does that make me gay or is that normal??

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:09 PM on Dec. 12, 2008 in Just for Fun

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  • i dont think so sometimes i do the same thing
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:10 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • maybe bi
    butterscotch297

    Answer by butterscotch297 at 6:11 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • i think it definetly makes you at least curious, which is OK
    bi-polarmommy

    Answer by bi-polarmommy at 6:11 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • I dream about having sex with women, but I'm sure I'm not gay. I guess women do fantasize about women. We're beautiful, aren't we? I mean, the thought of my man thinking of another man makes me want to barf. I have gay friends, but it just does NOT turn me on if my man is. LOL
    sweetvietchic

    Answer by sweetvietchic at 6:12 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • I think its just curious...and a lot of women do that.
    KelsoBabeyy

    Answer by KelsoBabeyy at 6:13 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • Women in general are beautiful and I think that sometimes it's a subconcious thing. I think probably every woman has done it at least once, whether or not she admits it is a different story:)
    micrespo

    Answer by micrespo at 6:13 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • I just think that a woman's body is so sexy and men naked are all gross! LOL!! Like I said, I would never be with a woman, but they are hot.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:13 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • Yes, it makes you bisexual or lesbian. Straight people do not think about the same gender to get off.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:15 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • But wouldn't you have to actually act out your thought to be labeled such? If you aren't doing it with other women how can you be gay? Just asking.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:18 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • I think you are bi-curious, I am the same thing! I never have been with a woman but I fantasize about it plus I only like girl on girl porn, To me watching that I can relate to because I know what it feels like being done to me, watching a man get a BJ doesn't turn me on in the slightest bit (unless its me and DH) I have no idea what a penis is feeling during sex and orgasm
    Married2theBest

    Answer by Married2theBest at 6:19 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

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