To choose a movie/show to watch knowing the other person/people in the room do not like those kinds of movies/shows? Or should the person/people that don't like it just leave?
The computer is right next to the TV in our living room. All day my husband has chose to watch movies that upset me. Earlier it was some very graphic western where they were burning kids alive, raping woman, people being shot, stabbed, drowned, etc. I was getting sick to my stomach but his opinion was I should leave if I don't like it (even though I had been watching something but paused it because the kids came in and I couldn't hear then he decided he wanted to watch and just canceled the show I was watching).
Now he's turned on Resident Evil. He KNOWS I hate zombie movies. They freak me out and give me nightmares. But he doesn't care. He never considers anyone but himself when he chooses what to watch on TV. I never get to choose what to watch if he's in the room and he'd never even consider picking something he knew I would like even if there's nothing on he really wants to watch.
Now I either sit here and be forced to listen to it (the TV is 2 feet from my chair and is so loud it's giving me a headache) or I have to go to another room. The other TV is being used by the kids who are watching a movie. The only other room to go to is my bedroom which has no TV, computer, internet or anything to do. It's just a room with a bed. And a baby sleeping so I have to be quiet while in there so I don't wake him.
He doesn't see any of this as rude. His opinion has always been he doesn't have to change how he does things since he doesn't have a problem with them. I'm the one with the problem so I should just get over the problem or change to accommodate him.
And there are things I need to do on the computer.
Answer by Gemini5 at 12:29 AM on Jun. 19, 2011
WOW.. i am sorry that your husband treats you like this- it is More than Rude; this is the up-most Disrespect- you deserve to be treated so much better than this..
Answer by daisyb at 12:35 AM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by Amelora at 12:51 AM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 1:06 AM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by hellokittykat at 1:08 AM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by oregonduck at 1:12 AM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by ljmommy1211 at 1:15 AM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by Sarah961 at 1:18 AM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by mommybug77 at 1:25 AM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by RobinChristine at 1:32 AM on Jun. 19, 2011