my husband cheating on me and got his coworker pregnant in 2008, he has been controlling and emotionally abusive, has tried to have more affairs but i caught him. i filed for divorce this last january and he begged me to give him one more chance so i did. while it seems he has did a total turn around i feel like im wasting my time by staying, im not attracted to him any more, i just feel indifferent towards him. he still keeps his lap top locked and only checks it when im not around, goes to the bathroom and texts ppl, he says he is going to to the bathroom n textin his mom. he added the woman he had an affair with back to fb, and can almost bet he has her in his phone but cant check since thats always locked and i never pushed him to look cause i really dont care and chances are he has gotten good at hiding stuff. he says he learned his lesson and he is treating me better and i want to believe he isnt still cheating, at least it seems he doesnt. he gives me his work hours and calls me from work when he is there. a friend had said the only reason he isnt cheating now is because most of the women who are that low are afraid of me. when i caught him with the slut he got prego with i whooped her butt.. she had the nerve to come to my house to pick him up and was all over him in my drive way, ive known her for many years, she was at our wedding. i was pissed and took out on her and she made a point to tell everyone that it was me that beat her up so now my dh cant get local women to look in his direction.in a way i feel bad that i still want the divorce cause it seems he is making an effort but all the years of him cheating still haunt me....advice?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:24 AM on Jun. 19, 2011 in Relationships
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