Okay i try and mind my own Bunicess because I just think it is smarting But i feel like i NEED to say something on this. I dont know to who!!! This girl is my best friend! I love her and her kids but i feel like she is having a hard time with somethings.
1) I dont want my three year old at her house... They have roaches. When i was there and saw one.. I said i needed to lay something happened at home! I got my son undressed before putting him in the car... and i changed my clothes outside my car as well and just threw those cloths away!! yes this may not of been needed but I dont need them at my house.. her house smells like cat pee...She has some many dishes piling up that their was mold and maggots growing in there!!!
2) she just started to date this guy and they are getting married. He hits her 6 year old! He is disable and needs a little more help but instead of helping him he hits him!! When i mean just started to date maybe a month!!!
3) she has a 6 month old...Who i was baby sitting at my home one day when she gave him to be he had a fuzzy layer under his neck..Which was mold!! I gave him a bath and washed his cloths!! And what ever else was in the diaper bag.... Which i got to the bottles I lost it! they were so bad that just dumping them out made me sick!!! How can you feed them to your son??
4) She always complain how they dont listen this and that... When I have them they do... she lets her 6 year old hit when he is mad and blames it on the disorder!!! She leaves these kids with people she just meet and can go buy stuff for her wedding instead of taking care of her kids!!!
5) she has guys in and out of her life one point she was messing around with 4 guys/ all over at different times...
she makes the 6 year old call this new guy daddy when he real dad is over is Hawaii in the military... She tell her 6 year old that daddy doesnt care...When he does he writes him and she doesnt give it to him!! I am really good friends with the dad so I am 100% he sends letters because he knew i watched them and send me letters for him!!
I really feel like a bad friend because I never let my son go over there and she ask all the time because no one else wants to be her friend but I feel so bad going right out and saying it!! I am so confused.. I am so grossed out! I dont want my son there so i cant think about how her kids feel...
WHAT SHOULD I DO??? PLEASE BUMP SO I CAN GET MORE PEOPLE ANSWERS!!!!!
PLEASE NOTE THAT I JUST WENT THERE FOR THE FIRST TIME TWO DAYS AGO IN THE PAST MONTH AND A HALF AND IT HAS GOTTEN 10 TIMES WORSE!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 1:40 AM on Jun. 19, 2011 in General Parenting
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