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I'm 7months pregnant and feel like my partner doesn't want me anymore, has anyone dealt with this?

My partner and I had a very affectionate loving relationship up until a few weeks ago. He doesn't kiss me as much, I feel like I'm always making him mad, and I feel as if he's being mean(although I could just be to sensitive and he's joking). For example, I brought my phone to bed last night because I needed the alarm on it to wake me up, I got a text and the bing sound woke him. I fell right back asleep, which for me right now is crazy, but then he got his I-pad out, started playing a game with the sound on full blast. I asked him to turn it down and he replied I was sleeping fine until your phone went off and showed no indication of turning it down or turning it off. I went and tried to sleep on the couch. My feelings were so hurt by that action and my body was hurt by the couch. The last time I felt that way was with my exhusband who was abusive and use to do things like that to prove a point and hurt me. Im scared of what all this means... someone give me advice or just make me feel better, I'd take either at this point.

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Asked by B25Eaton at 1:53 PM on Jun. 19, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Is he nervous about a new baby coming along? My husband acted like a real turd up until our daughter was actually born. I think he was scared about growing up but once his baby girl arrived he became SUCH a dad and over protective of her and me. Have you talked with him about how you feel?

    Answer by marine_wife0520 at 3:47 PM on Jun. 19, 2011

  • im kinda in the same boat my husband is more distant we dont have sex dont fool around dont kiss hardly and we r always bickering and i guess fighting i am 8 months preg and 37 weeks and a bitch sometimes but i cant help it i try to be nice but idk its a toll on my relationship with him i dont think men understand what us women go through, im sorry just know u r not the only one dealing with it

    Answer by AliciaLamoreux at 5:54 PM on Jun. 19, 2011

  • It might just be hormones making it worse. I mean, thats really not a nice thing for him to do, but hes a dude. My husband is a real nice guy, loving and all that jazz, but every now and then he does something similar. I just let it go

    Answer by monstersmommy20 at 2:43 AM on Jun. 20, 2011

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