he met this girl less than a month ago and they got married yesterday and today she left him and says she was an anollment (sp?) being im a very blunt person, when he told me 2 weeks ago that they were gettin married i told him that he is being stupid. of course been married for 12 years and its been hell since day one and now going thru a divorce im more-less against marriage any way, and im sure thats what he assumed the point i was making when i told him gettin married wasnt a good idea. but that wasnt my reason, he knows nothing about her other than she looks great in a bikini, and i told him that and he said she is the one i knew it from the moment i seen her. if she was really the one she would take a lil more time to date and get to know each other b4 gettin married, esp since she is a single mom of 3 kids, so its not just her life she is messing up its her kids. and dont get me wrong my friend is a true gentleman and wants a family in the worst way...and just so we are understood no i do not want him, i have a girlfriend, im not interested in guys.
he came whining and crying to me about it and i wasnt able to offer much support other than the blanket terms, things will work out, im sorry... i just cant relate to his situation. im really worried that he will do something stupid like hurt himself, his luck with women sucks.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:42 PM on Jun. 19, 2011 in Relationships
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