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2 Bumps

Have you ever had a bad feeling about someone then found you were right?

I know of twice. I dated a nice guy and just had a bad feeling, so I told him I didn't want to go out again(I've done this a few times). Then I met a guy and had the same feeling, but again perfectly nice I thought I need to stop this. We ended up getting married. Years later I found him cheating, actually he was pretty bad from the time we got married. About a year ago I ran into the other guy, I thought we were just catching up. He even told me he had a live in gf. A week later he asked me out! I told him no, then a couple weeks later he says he's engaged! He still tries to contact me. It drives me crazy, just proves I need to always trust my gut.

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Asked by camiam81 at 8:21 PM on Jun. 19, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I dated a guy after everyone talking me into it. Things went great until he beat my ass. People changed thier minds real quick.

    Answer by sugamama3 at 8:27 PM on Jun. 19, 2011

  • I think it's very important to trust your gut feeling. I know now to trust my gut feeling when it comes to people in general, not just men.

    Answer by Ashoonik at 8:29 PM on Jun. 19, 2011

  • Definitely go with your gut. I wish I had a better gut feeling about the guys I dated. It would have saved me a lot of heartache. I am so much better with my friend's boyfriends. I know when they are slime.

    Answer by HollyBoBolly at 8:45 PM on Jun. 19, 2011

  • I am usually so so good about trusting my gut instinct about people. But in my case I trusted someone I shouldn't have. He pulled the wool of hundreds of poeples eyes. It still makes me sick to think about the things that happened. It's made me question my instinct and I am having to let myself trust again.

    Answer by LadybugTash at 10:25 PM on Jun. 19, 2011

  • I am right 99% of the time about people! It's beyond just a feeling. I can read em pretty well.

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 1:46 AM on Jun. 20, 2011

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