So the other night dh and I had an arguement.
I got home pretty late thursday and the house was a mess so I.wanted to clean before bed. I can't sleep well with the house a mess. He wanted to sit down and talk. He is starting up a business and is excited about it! I am excited for him. He wanted to talk about it. I told him go head I am listening. He said no sit down. So I told him well lets compromise. We can sit down and talk. Can you help me clean once.we're done? His reponds was "and still get up in morning to do what I have to do?" uh....yea i gotta get up at 5:30 so whatcha saying?!
So now he is like you always complain bc we don't communicate but now that I want to talk you're giving me an altermative! I.wasn't looking at it like that I just wanted compromise. Isn't that whats marriage is about? So we got into a slight argument and I said lets let it go. You want to talk lets talk. I sat down and he said no bc it doesn't feel genuine. So now he is holding a grudge bc he said that I expect him to understand my feelings but I can't do the same and that I am not supporting him which is far from the truth. Thats all I been doing for the last 9 yrs is showing support. I think he is being childish and an asshole! I can never hold a grudge long. But apparently he wants to bc he is upset that I don't respect his feelings and blah blah blah...idk
so am I wrong? If I am pls tell me where I am wrong at. I just want to fix this and move on bc to me its childish.
Thanks for listening.
Answer by zoomomto3 at 9:54 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
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Answer by MrsLeftlane at 9:02 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
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Answer by Sarah961 at 10:32 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
I think you were wrong! Your dh wanted to talk about something that was really important to him (and your family) and you blew him off. I would have been pissed if my dh had done that to me.
Answer by beeky at 10:45 PM on Jun. 19, 2011