Before I start venting I do want to say I love my husband. He goes to work 5 days a week and never compains. He is great with our two older children. But......
He never helps when I need him too. I get up at 7:30 every morning to take care of the kids. I do the cooking, cleaning, shopping, kid taxi, i handle the bills, dog care, cat care, vets,doctors appointments well everything but I dont mow the lawn. Although I did last weekend. I even work baby sitting for extra money. My husband acts like since he works thats it. Even the simplest things he doesn't do such as diaper changing. He did the dishes tonight and acted like he should have a metal. Doesn't matter I have done everything. I know he works but he works catching shop lifters with his best friends so its alot of fun for him. So when he comes home and says hun I need me time I want to punch him. I don't get me time. Even when I am going potty! Then at 3 am when he gets off the xbox or computer or done watching movies he wants to have adult time. REALLY! I am beyond tired but he acts like I should stay up with him. Some times I want to yell some one has to be the adult. I dont know am I being selfish. Does stay at home mom = do everything kid and house related???
Answer by danichaos at 9:19 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by dustbunny at 9:22 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by MrsLeftlane at 9:23 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by KellyGirl_TX at 9:25 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
Sounds like your husband does not respect or appreciate your contributions. Get a PT job and let him p/u some of the responsibilities at home-
Answer by Sisteract at 9:28 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
Answer by Camilletnt at 9:32 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
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Answer by thelovelymzbre at 10:00 PM on Jun. 19, 2011
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