my dh came home last night at 1 am from work(this is his usual weekend off he went in for overtime) he grabbed his lap top, and packed some clothes and said he had to go to another town an hour away for work.( he works at a state institution that takes care of dev. disabled) he said that the guy at the hospital had a tooth ache and went home so he had go up and take watch( one of the clients was to have knee surgry and because he is violent needs a direct care staff has to be with him to help the nurses and other staff at the public hospital) he told me the guy had surgry yesterday..never heard of surgry on saterdays unless it was life or death, at least at this hospital. and why would staff want to leave 2 hrs into the shift for a tooth ache? dh normally gets off at 645 am, they run 8 hrs shifts out there and even when a client is off campus and needs supervision they care the same hours, i used to work out there and have friends tht currently work out there, nothing is changed. he didnt come home today until 11:30 am, when he told me when he left at 1 am that he will be home around 9ish since he had to do paper work at his job. normally when he comes home from work he is tired and bitchy, he seemed wide awake and happy like he got sleep. he told me he had to go back up at 7 today and he didnt wake up till 7 then he said oh its no big deal. normally when he goes on "outings/over nights" with the clients he gets mad cause its then one staff to one client and the client acts out more when away from campus to see how far that can push the limits. and this particular guy dh HATES, why be excited about spending 16 hrs with him?
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