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Ive been stressed...

Im only 16 and about to have my first baby with my boyfriend of 1 year.
Im constantly freaking out anf stressing about what we dont have, and what we need,
and how Im scared im not gonna be a good mom.
Is there anything at all that I can do, to think of more positive things?
or is there anyone who can help me deal with this a little better??

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Asked by Sagredo3510 at 4:56 AM on Jun. 20, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • hunn im 31 years old and im scared an too stressed i think this is normal as lots of momies here told me as well .... try to relax for the baby cause negative thought will provide stress and stress is not good for the bby health .... think how that bby will change completely your life and make you happy ... gd luck !!

    Answer by caramelH at 6:24 AM on Jun. 20, 2011

  • I am 30 ...and when I was pregnant.. when I was 29 I worried too.. it's perfectly normal..
    you will be a great mom.. it comes naturally.. don't worry :) the fact that all this stuff bothers you.. shows that you will be a great mom!

    Answer by Emmajosmommy at 8:09 AM on Jun. 20, 2011

  • I was 22 when I had my baby, I think there are so many moms in different ages do get scary and worried about everything. There is a saying, "No one is ever ready for the baby til it is born" So, indeed, I will say it is SO true. You'll be ok, as long you have family support and a child's father support being with you and you will be okay, I promise! :)

    Answer by breezymommie at 8:54 AM on Jun. 20, 2011

  • thank you so much.
    i am going through alot at the moment as my parents are getting a divorce.
    and choosing where to go is very stressful.
    it has caused me and my sister to fight and hate eachother.
    i am just thinking about my babygirl.

    Comment by Sagredo3510 (original poster) at 1:37 PM on Jun. 20, 2011

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