my husband chris and i used to be very sexually active before i got pregnant with my now 3 year old son and our now 9month old son but suddenly we just sort of stopped be intimate with each other just mainly because i am not in the mood anymore or he just picks the bad times to want to do it. example( when he gets home from work and kids are napping while i am trying to clean and may i add i babysit and there is a 7year old that comes into the house for anything and thats the last thing i want is for the 7 year old kid to come in while we are having sex.
He has said why don't u want to have sex any more, i said well for several reasons. I had two kids and i am not as sexy as i once was. number 2 u threw a pen at me once when you were mad and i am now sometimes afraid of what u will do if u get mad, and 3 u always want to do it when kids are running around or i am busy and just not in the mood. 4 we always do it in the same spot and u always want to go straight to the sex while i want it romantic and try new things.
He then proceeds and says u know not having sex in any relationship results are bad like cheating not saying i would do that but that happens.
Need i remind u i take care of our 2 boys, watch our neighbors 2 boys, cook,clean, go grocery shopping, i am just exhausted and don't have energy to have sex, and i did have one pregnancy scare about month ago. My period normally comes on a Tuesday or weds and it didn't come either days, I was scared and got a test but it was negative. Thursday night my period finally came so now i am scared that i might get pregnant again.
we used to have sex like every other day, now we are lucky if we have sex twice a week. We have gone almost a month with out it.
I just need help.....
Asked by Anonymous at 10:33 AM on Jun. 20, 2011 in Relationships
Well, there are lots of ways to help prevent a pregnancy if your scared of getting pregnant again. I am going to get hell for this but I have to say that the pen thing made me laugh. Seriously. Yes it was wrong of him to throw a pen at you but now being "scared" of what he might do seems a bit dramatic to me. If he does or says other things like that, I'd end the relationship period. Maybe you could designate a specific time to do the do? Being exhausted, that's a given, but don't let your relationship suffer because of it babe.
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