My mom is a narcisstic bitch. 3 years ago we lived with her. We paid the utilities and my husband redid her bathroom from the beams up. When we moved in she told us to focus on paying our bills and saving money.
Two days ago I get an email. She says it's not far that we have rebuilt our credit and that we have a decent life. She wants 10k for the time we lived with her. Now we are by no means rich. My husband is a supervisor for Tyson and we moved across the state with his job. We are renting a rundown house and my kids are in hand me downs. We are working on rebuilding our credit to buy a house. Her house forclosed today. I am sorry her house was lost. She should never have bought it. She works a minimum wage job and wastes most her income.
I told her I don't believe we owe her the money. She's my mom, should I pay to maintain some sort of connection? Or tell her to go away?
Answer by gdiamante at 1:21 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by mamawilbur at 1:22 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by Dahis at 1:22 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Give her a bill for $10,000 for redoing the bathroom. If she did not want to get paid then, she cannot expect to change the rules 3 years later because she's hurting for money. She sounds selfish and juvenile
Answer by vampporcupine at 1:24 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by older at 1:24 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by tasches at 2:07 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by Raine2001 at 5:34 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Next question overall
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