I will try to be brief, but my husband has turned into a very selfish person. I had a fantastic job when we met and put him through school, he has done pretty well now, and when our son was born, I really cut back. He never wants to have sex, he yells at me all of the time, and our son even said to him, you treat my mommy awful.
Much of it is too long to go into, but we had several miscarriages, and a daughter who died at birth, finally after 15 years we got our son. It almost seems like he is jealous of him, and although does things with him is highly critical. I just feel so alone, and with not barely any money coming in for myself,, I don't know what to do...I asked if we could go to counseling, the answer, yes if you got off your fat ass and went first yourself,, idk mommas???
Asked by Anonymous at 1:39 PM on Jun. 20, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by NannyB. at 2:44 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by pookiekins34 at 1:40 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by musicpisces at 1:43 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
His abusive actions and language would have to be addressed for me to stay, personally. You have to decide if you still love him, if you want to work it out or if you are just finished period. Couples often have trouble adjusting to the huge sacrifices and changes the having a child bring in to your lives.. If your son has verbalized how 'awful' his treatment is towards you it is definately time for some changes. Your child deserves to live in a home where he feels safety, security and love. It doesn't much sound like he is right now.
Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 1:48 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by momindiana at 1:49 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by gdiamante at 1:45 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Leave him sweetie, that's not good for your little boy to see how his father treats his mother not a good example at all & your husband sounds like he isnt going to change, so for your little boys sake leave your husband & also for yourself you deserve a man who will treat you with respect & truly love you. GL & sorry for what your going through ((HUGS))
Answer by VanillaBlondie8 at 1:47 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by Jeelly at 1:57 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by tasches at 2:04 PM on Jun. 20, 2011
Answer by takes_a_village at 4:01 PM on Jun. 20, 2011